Building Professional
Relationships with Students and Adults
There are many areas in which you need to demonstrate professional competency.
None is more important than your ability to develop and maintain positive
working relationships with students, teachers, school staff, administrators,
parents, and university personnel. The relationships that you build with
students and adults in your environment will go a long way in making your
preparation as a teacher a rewarding and successful experience.
Your future ability as a teacher, and your perceived value as an employee,
have a great deal to do with the way in which you handle yourself in these
relationships.
The following are some suggestions which will assist you in building
and maintaining quality professional relationships:
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The classes you will be assigned or the case load you will assume will
be culturally diverse. Treat each student as an individual. Respect
their contributions as worthy and important and intentionally create a
classroom climate that reflects a multicultural and individualized perspective
with attention given to materials, activities and positive interactions.
Remember to use positive nonverbal behavior like smiling.
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Listen to and watch what is going on in your school, classroom, or community.
Be a skillful observer, take notes, gather information, and ask questions
which strive for understanding. This is your opportunity to tap the
expertise of professional educators and learn as much as you can during
this short time.
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The practices we observe in the field may not always conform to what you
believe in or have learned in your formal coursework. If you have
some concerns about a specific practice, ask questions in a non-judgmental
manner to gain further insight about school policy, a teacher, classroom
practices, or a student's behavior.
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Often information shared in the school setting is not appropriate for other
audiences. Not only is it important to respect the information you
have about students and their families but you also need to be discrete
about sharing the experiences you encounter in the classroom or in the
school with those outside of that environment. Confidentiality is
an expected professional attribute.
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Be sure that you really do know your personal biases, particularly as they
are going to affect your attitudes and actions toward students, parents,
or other professionals in the school. You need to be sure that these
biases do not interfere with your professional responsibilities.
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Recognize that you communicate through both verbal and nonverbal avenues.
Be sure that both your verbal and nonverbal communication reflect a positive
attitude and professional image.
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Recognize that others judge you and make decisions about you based upon
your personal appearance and manner. Take your cues from the standard
or norms established within your building.
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Often you will be expected to participate in collaborative activities with
other teachers. In inclusive settings you may team teach with another
educator. If you are a special educator you may work closely with
a variety of regular educators in team teaching situations. It is
essential that you learn how to work effectively with others. Communicating
openly and honestly, and being respectful of other views are essential
attributes of a team player, and will facilitate the maintenance of a healthy
work environment.
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Your relationship with your mentor teacher is a vital one. The
way you conduct yourself initially will have a significant influence upon
your working relationship with your mentor teacher. Exhibit
an interest in what goes on in the classroom. Taking notes, asking
questions, becoming actively involved, and being responsive to requests
for assistance will contribute to the mentor teacher's perception
of your potential to assume increased responsibility.
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Observations will be conducted on a regular basis by your college supervisor
and mentor teacher. This may be a stressful experience for some
teacher candidates. In order to make the observation less stressful and
maintain a positive working relationship, consider their written and verbal
feedback objectively, ask questions about points that may be unclear and
be willing to problem solve together. Suggest to your supervisor
what you want them to focus upon. Try not to react defensively and
produce excuses for instruction that did not go as you intended.
Instead, try to incorporate their suggestions into your teaching.
Showing an interest in improving and learning will promote good relationships,
and make it easier for your supervisor and mentor teacher to be helpful.
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You may have the opportunity to interact with parents during your student
teaching experience. Try to learn as much as you can about
the community. Help parents to feel welcomed and appreciated when
they visit the school. Always be courteous and professional. It is
a good practice to have the mentor teacher present when conferring
with a parent about their child's performance.
Table of Contents | Introduction
| The Teacher Intern | Planning
For Effective Instruction |
The Mentor Teacher | The
Role of the University Supervisor |
Evaluating the Performance of the
Teacher Intern |
Policies, Procedures and Professional
Ethics
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Please contact Dorothy McKnight, Placement Coordinator,
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Last updated on November 20, 2002